The real world God had in mind for Man was back in the Garden before the Fall called Original Creation where there's no sin, no sickness, no corruption, no evil etc. but all good, but now he's given Man a second chance with a second Adam and the last chance with the last Adam called the New Creation. In other words it was never God's will for Man to fall to begin with.

 if you're truly born again you have no idea of your new identity in Christ, I drank alcohol getting drunk four nights a week, addicted to all kinds of drugs and girls and rock and roll, you name it I did it and the moment I got born again all of those things left my life and that was 32 years ago including the cigarettes including the fornication just to name a few, it's called the new birth it's called being born again it's called being a new creation in Christ Jesus the second Adam. It's called being born of incorruptible seed, maybe you should look it up in the Bible

 Those who claim to walk with Jesus would have the very same works that Jesus had and even greater works so before you go bragging about your walk with Jesus you need to take a good look at your works to see if they line up with His Works in the Four Gospels, and if they don't then you're not walking with Jesus or you may be walking with a different Jesus.

 God has already forgiven everybody, now it's up to us to hear about it which is the good news and to receive it by believing it and once you receive it by believing it you will be born again but if you don't receive it by not believing it you will not receive that forgiveness of sins because you were forgiven positionally, and in order for that forgiveness to be efficacious or effective or a reality in your life you need to believe and a part of believing is a change of mind or repentance or in other words in the Greek metanoia.

 Some people say it's demonic but I lived for the devil for 31 years and I never spoken those gibberish tongues as they say, but not too long after I was born again gloriously radically saved, I received the baptism of the holy spirit with the evidence of speaking in tongues in my bedroom while waiting on the Lord spending time with him and I had not even been saved one year, I know people have been saved for 30 to 40 years and they don't have the time of the day to spend time with the Lord, shame on them

 God allows what we allow, get that straight, God tells us what to believe and not believe God tells us what to do and not do but he won't believe it nor do it for us, and even warns us of consequences.

 Reformed theology is one of the worst theological systems you could ever choose to adopt to your walk with God, it's marred with skewed interpretations of the Word of God