When you're truly walking by faith you're being led by your heart and not by your surroundings since faith is in/of the heart.

 the church has been infected by false indoctrination starting with liberal Theology and Progressive Christianity but also Calvinism and cessationism grieving the Holy Spirit quenching the Holy Spirit stopping the Holy Spirit from being and doing what he was sent to be and do just to name a few, of course we have other issues and other camps like the charismatic camp as well as the word of faith camp and the nar I'm the first one to admit that one, what the church needs is one big final and last pure Reformation where the Holy Spirit is allowed to be and do what he was sent to be and do as in being the head of the church accompanied with all his giftings and operations as he wills with the right proper Church government since he was sent to take the place of Jesus in the hearts of those who are born again and in Christ the second Adam.

 nobody is born born again nobody is born spiritually alive but spiritually dead in our trespasses, the only two people that were born right with God was the first Adam and the Second Adam

 that's right, the debt for sin being paid by Jesus had to be received by faith or by believing, salvation is a gift that could be received or rejected and even once you receive the gift of Salvation you can do whatever you want with it meaning you can throw it away eventually, so much for once saved always saved, the debt was paid in full but it was paid positionally meaning like you said it has to be accepted or received, and when the sinner stands before God in the great white Throne judgment the sinner will have nothing to accuse God of because God will show him everything that He had already done for him positionally and will reveal to him his folly in rejecting the free gift of salvation. And this by itself will torment the sinner among many other things for eternity in the Lake of fire.

 It depends what it is, if she's about to cross the street with lots of traffic and you tell her not to cross and she goes to cross, it's your responsibility to stop in order to protect her and even maybe save her life, when it comes to Genesis 2:17 God told Adam what to do and not do telling him the consequences and Adam did the opposite yet God never stopped him because he had told him beforehand what to do or not do.

 Does God know the Eternal destination of man before he is born? of course he does he's omniscient, God knew well that man was going to fall and God knew well that many would end up rejecting the gospel but if he had chosen not to create man because of this he would have taken man's freedom to choose away from man. God allows what we allow yet at the same time he tells us what to do or not to do even though he knows what we're going to do, we seem to put the blame on God but the blame is on us.

 God wiped out the whole race with a global flood Genesis 6 and he's going to wipe out the whole race of unbelievers when he comes back again and throw them all into the Lake of Fire Revelation 20, it still stands the truth that God has done it in the past and will do it without our permission I might add, meaning God is not as lovey-dovey as we think he is, yet we are in the dispensation of Grace at this time but that time is coming to an end, meaning no more Grace by Judgment, shalom