There's a difference between keeping your salvation and walking in your salvation and obviously you don't know the difference, once you're truly born again you are on the straight and narrow path and the Lord is there to help you to keep and stay on that straight and narrow path but he won't do it for you, the Epistles are full of exhortations, instructions, and even warnings to the Saints and not so much the sinners. There's no such thing as a relationship between God and his children in the calvinistic camp, it's all about control but that's not what the Word teaches.