God allows what we allow, it's part of the law of sowing and reaping, many Christians are not being led by the Holy Spirit but led by people, wrong emotions and so forth, God has commanded Us in His Word to put off the old man and to put on the new man but most Christians are still living out of the old man and not the new man, we are commanded to stop conforming to this world but many Christians still conform to this world and all of this causes US problems, we need to stop blaming God and start looking in the mirror as well as the mirror of His Word rightly interpreted.