I guess you forgot about first Corinthians 14:2 to 4 for starters, speaking to God and not man, speaking mysteries and edifying yourself, those who criticize tongues don't have the gift of tongues meaning they don't know what they're talking about, I received the gift of tongues not too long after I was born again at the age of 31 in my bedroom while waiting upon the Lord while sitting upon my bed and reading His Word