Jesus talked about judging with righteous judgment and he also said before you attempt to remove the speck in your brother's eye you need to remove the plank in your own eye in order to avoid hypocritical judgment. Easy peasy. Before I was born again I was a fornicator, and that means I slept around with a lot of girls because I was playing in rock bands and I also indulged in self gratification if you know what that means, and the moment I experienced a conviction of sin John 16:8-9 everything changed, I repented from my sinful living and was gloriously saved and born again and I never went back to my vomit in the last 32 years, easy peasy