God is never the problem, never, God allows what we allow, he tells us what to do what not to do or what to believe and not to believe, but that's up to us to do it and if we don't, there are consequences! that's the problem with a lot of the people in the church, they expect God to do certain things where God expects us to do certain things first, the Holy Bible especially the New Testament since we are post cross is full of commands and imperatives and things that God expects us to do and if we don't do those things then there are consequences since God won't do them for us, I'm not a calvinist meaning I don't believe that God is sovereign and in control of everything meaning there are many things that God expects from me and the rest of his children in the same way that parents expect certain things from their children, and one of those things is to grow up and get with God's program